When somebody strongly dislikes you but doesn’t want to show it, they will often be absent when you call or text them.They always seem to be busy and not around to spend time with you. Even if it’s just a friendly get-together or a quick chat about something at work, they’re always otherwise occupied.This can be quite confusing at first, especially if you’re a pleasant and kind person, but it’s important to keep in mind that not everybody likes the same type of people.“How nice a person is may not be an important factor to someone else. For example: They may prefer someone edgy, sarcastic, hip, or any other specific qualities that could appeal to another person,” observes psychotherapist Karen Arluck, LCSW.